Tonight my Feldenkrais teacher said: "If you're not aware of it, you can't do anything about it."
Her statement struck me as being, besides a way to encourage her students to develop their kinesthetic sense, another way to say - observe yourself. In the post Seeing Your Self, I proposed the idea of making self-observation a habit. http://therapiststhoughts.blogspot.com/2010/03/seeing-your-self.html
Occasionally in therapy, a client will describe a problem, I will indicate that I understand it, then the client says, 'so, what do I do about it?'. An easy answer, of course, is not what you want from a therapist. If you are seeking formulaic solutions, a self-help book alone will offer that. What therapy is for is discovering the best way for the individual you. It provides the discipline of a regular time to focus on yourself and your particular concerns. It includes a container of sorts--an office in which to formally conduct your self-exploration, but also a confidential container. And then there is a person who joins you in your individual journey.
That's the therapy route; there are other paths to personal growth and creative problem solving. But don't they all require being aware?
Do you have any comments about self-observation or developing your awareness? Please share them!
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